Remember that fairytale? It even got a fairytale ending. For a little bit anyway.
It felt like a victory, like one small step for women-kind when Facebook reinstated The Leaky B@@b page around 3 on Tuesday, January 4, 2011. The whirl-wind of the previous 2 days seemed like it suddenly stopped. There was virtual celebrating and our little fairytale community picked up right where it had left off plus a few thousand more members. The wall on the page was hoping, after the celebrating calmed down posts asking about everything from how to deal with teething to is it ok if my baby wants to nurse all the time and is it ok to breastfeed past 12 months (it is, by the way) filled the page. Leakies got back to the business of feeding their babies and supporting other Leakies. Well wishers popped in congratulating us on getting our space back. The energy was like a good party, a good party with good friends. People that had never heard of TLB before joined and expressed how excited they were to know they were not alone. Several others expressed how they wished they had something like TLB when they were breastfeeding and were so happy to see our community there for other moms now.
Personally, I was looking forward to a good night’s sleep. You know that big sigh you heave when something intense, requiring hard word is over? I couldn’t believe that after just a few short days I was already there, heaving that sigh and moving on. For a moment my mind even wandered to other posts I had been planning before the page went down. Everything was normal again. I looked around at my neglected house and tackled a few areas. I took Earth Baby to ballet, made dinner, spent some time on Facebook, read with my girls, made a batch of bread dough, did dishes, fed Smunchie, fiddled around on Twitter, fiddled around on the new web page, worked on an outline for another post, answered some emails, went back to Facebook.
And it was gone. Not Facebook, The Leaky Boob. I tried 3 times but I knew right away what was going on. So I tried the Bring Back The Leaky Boob page. Same result. Both pages were gone.
Last time I cried. This time I didn’t cry. I closed my eyes and put my head back.
There was the same form letter email in my inbox, deleted for violating the terms of service. Violators don’t get to come back. I’ve heard that one before.
We’ll get the pages back. It’s just not over yet. But I already knew it wasn’t over.
It wasn’t enough to get The Leaky Boob page reinstated the first time because the problem is more than that one page being deleted. The Leaky Boob was reinstated and that was a very exciting and important piece of what we wanted. Still, Facebook needs to do something about the problem with deleting (erroneously or otherwise) breastfeeding pages and materials. Their system is not working and ignoring the problem positions all groups related to breast health including breastfeeding and breast cancer to experience the same treatment simply because any Facebook user can report or flag them for being obscene. Breast health is not obscene. Breasts are not obscene. Facebook needs to create some way for breast health pages, images (including personal breastfeeding photos), terminology and information to be exempt from automatic deletion when reported, or some other way to keep truly obscene content off the site without blocking legitimate pages.
The Leaky B@@b fan page is missed by thousands of “Leakies.” We need it back. Studies show that support is crucial to breastfeeding success and a support community is what this is all about. But this isn’t just about breastfeeding support, it’s about breast health, normalizing breastfeeding, infant nutrition, women’s rights, the objectification of women, and so much more. This is about public health.
One step forward, two steps back. I’m ready to run a marathon.
Two new pages have sprung up on Facebook, one aimed to Bring Back The Leaky Boob- again and the other invinting you to Join TLB in Support of Women’s Health. Like these pages on Facebook to get up to date information. I shared here ways for you to help, working together a community can accomplish great change.