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What did you stop doing for yourself after you had kids? Not just the big stuff or lifestyle shifts like no longer partying but the more regular things related to taking care of yourself or your education or time with friends, etc. Maybe it was a sudden change or maybe it was a slow progression.![]()
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Whatever it is, how do you feel about these changes? Do you miss anything? Do you think you'll adjust back one day? Are you sad? Are you ok with it?![]()
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I was thinking about this the other day for myself. Some of these shifts are better for me, such as no longer eating out- saves me money and I like how I feel eating more homemade food (I enjoy cooking). And some aren't so great. I stopped making meals I enjoy that were more involved. I stopped singing and stopped writing music. I stopped going to see shows, plays, operas, concerts, musicals, etc. I stopped painting. I stopped drinking my cup of coffee while it was warm. I stopped showering on schedule that works best for me. I haven't worn clothes I can't breastfeed in for a very long time now. And a lot more.![]()
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It's normal, of course, to adjust and stop some activities that no longer fit your new season of life. That's not all that happens though, there's also the gradual letting go to accommodate the lack of social support while meeting the needs of someone else. Don't loose yourself or let yourself go, they tell us, but then there's no real ongoing support so that doesn't happen.![]()
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What have you stopped doing since having kids? How do you feel about that?![]()
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***I do look forward to some day drinking my cup of coffee while it is hot still.***
This 2 year old sings Somewhere Over the Rainbow with her mommy to her brand new baby sister. 🥹![]()
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There are some distinct hard parts of adding a baby to your family and the postpartum period can really intensify them. What would you add to our list?![]()
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In our Glowing After Baby workshop we get real about the good parts and hard parts of postpartum reality including physical changes, emotional and mental changes, and relationship changes that impact family dynamics and partnership. Whether welcoming a first baby or a 9th, CNM Sue Potts joins us to talk about practical strategies that can shift the postpartum from surviving to thriving. #postpartum #newborn #somewhereovertherainbow #toddler #relationships
"I just don't understand why she stresses so much about the little things."![]()
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Our client was completely serious when he said this. ![]()
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The "little things" he was referring to ranged from enforcing bedtimes, wiping down counters, starting homework support by a certain time, transferring laundry from the washer to the dryer, starting meal prep with enough time to eat on time, checking backpacks, packing for outings, etc.![]()
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Then he said the phrase we've heard time and time and time again: "she should just relax, everything always works out."![]()
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That's when my coaching partner and husband spoke up.![]()
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"She is why it always works out. And you know why? Because she's probably the one that deals with the consequences if the 'little things' aren't done. The one who faces the criticism of your mother and her's when the house is a mess or the kids are acting out, the one who scrubs the counter later and gets the stuck on food off, the one comforting the overtired children, the one cleaning a mildewy washing mashing or rewashing the laundry and setting a timer to switch the loads, the one pinch hitting with food for hangry kids when a meal isn't on time, the one cleaning out dirty backpacks or getting calls from the school for missing important materials, the one calming and regulating kids and maybe even you when something important is missing for an outing, etc. The little things always work out because she is either the one dealing with them to make sure they are done or is the one dealing with the fallout when they aren't done. You have been protected from the consequences of the little things not being done because she is the one. There are no house fairies, there are no magical elves cobbling the little things together when you're sleeping so they all work out, it is her. IF she relaxes and stops staying on top of those things, they won't work out any more. It is more efficient for her to stress and try to stay on top of the little things than to let them fall apart and deal with the consequences because that will be more work for her in the long run."![]()
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By the time he was done, she was crying and the guy who had said that she just needed to relax and not stress so much about the little things was quiet. ![]()
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Finally, through her tears, she said "I feel so seen right now. That's exactly what it is."![]()
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"I guess I didn't realize..."![]()
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"You're a smart man, you manage a whole team of people and execute the details of million dollar projects. You know things don't just work out without planning and execution. You have to be honest with yourself that it worked for you to not realize and let her carry that stress and then not think about why that was. There is something about this that benefitted you and until you are honest about that and make meaningful change, the resentment that has crept into your relationship is just going to grow."![]()
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This was a year ago. Today this couple is doing really well, they have found a collaborative approach that works for them and are working together to share more of the load with kids, home, and life together. It wasn't easy, not only did they both have skills to develop, he had to be honest about how the pattern that had been established was to his advantage, she had to be honest about that too, and they both had to make some meaningful change.![]()
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***Pic of my husband holding one of our baby's hands***
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"If you've ever had a child or been a parent you know what it means to say that each day is a new experiment. There is so much to figure out, and so many self-proclaimed helpful resources. Fortunately, Jessica Martin-Weber, owner/creator/author of The Leaky Boob, has the answers based on science, best practice, and practical advice stemming from her own experiences raising nine children. TLB is a go-to for all people expecting, lactating, raising children, or counseling any of the aforementioned groups. Want advice on speed dial? Check out TheLeakyBoob.com."
Kim Updegrove, MSN, MPH, APRN, CNM, chairperson and Past President of Human Milk Bank of North America, Executive Director at Mothers' Milk Bank at Austin
"I found TLB and Jessica when I was desperately trying to figure out how to keep breastfeeding my eldest, who my lactation consultant still says had the worst latch she has ever seen. Jessica had created something so special-amazing information, a supportive community amidst the mommy wars, content in many different formats for those of us who need to see/read/hear in different ways, and it is no exaggeration to say that her work was instrumental in not just saving that breastfeeding journey (which would extend through 3 years, 18 months of that tandem nursing) but in setting me up for success and support in future journeys, and truly for motherhood as a whole. The down to earth way she writes makes the information relatable and easy to digest and apply. I am forever grateful."
Dr. Jennifer Stone, PT, DPT, OCS, PHC, TPS, HLC
"The Leaky Boob has met a need in the lactating community since its inception. Jessica’s breastfeeding support group is a true pioneer in the online breastfeeding community, offering families exceptional education and unwavering support long before similar pages emerged. Her transparency, authenticity, and heartfelt encouragement create a safe and empowering space where parents feel heard and guided. It’s a shining example of what real, compassionate leadership looks like!"
CHRISTY JO HENDRICKS IBCLC, RLC, CCCE, CLE©, Doula
Hi there!
Jessica and Jeremy Martin-Weber are the dynamic duo behind The Leaky Boob, a trusted resource dedicated to supporting families on their parenting and breastfeeding journeys. As parents to nine children, they bring a wealth of personal experience, humor, and compassion to their work. Together, they have created a safe, inclusive space where parents can access evidence-based information, practical advice, and a thriving community.
Jessica leads with her passion for normalizing breastfeeding and empowering families, while Jeremy provides a supportive voice for partners and caregivers, fostering collaboration and connection. Their shared mission is to celebrate the uniqueness of every family's story and provide resources to help navigate both the joys and challenges of nurturing little ones.
